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‘Everything is perfect’ we say, cheerfully. ‘Every situation and every feeling and every outcome is totally perfect!’, we hear ourselves proclaim, with shiny spiritual smiles on our tired faces. And we really want to believe that….

I’m not doing anything. I’m not going anywhere. I watch tiny house videos on YouTube. Or cats that are best friends with dogs, or otters, or foxes. I lose myself in hours and hours of talks…

And then all of a sudden you realize: ‘People are lucky to work with me!’ You’ve been a struggling coach or therapist or change worker or whatever for years, and you have been constantly fighting for…

People are always right. When I started to post on Facebook a year or two ago after having been away from the platform for many years, it didn’t take long before I used a recognizable form…

You can start with nothing. More accurately: you ALWAYS start with nothing. Did you know that? Every piece of text I ever wrote, every advertising concept that was ever conceived through me, every chat I ever…

I feel raw. Emotionally. Raw is good. It’s real. I feel like a tired old punching bag at the end of a busy day in the gym. I’m hurting, and I’m healing. And they are all…

I’ve experienced a mountain range of pain in my life, but all I can truly remember is a map. Right now, while sitting on my bed in the morning, watching kids play on a trampoline in…