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When people tell me how amazing and brave and strong it is that I quit drinking and using drugs after more than 25 years of abuse, I feel quite uncomfortable. Although I was there when it…

‘I know how you feel’, we say. But we don’t. We know how WE feel, at least approximately, or we remember how WE felt when we went through an experience with the same name. I will…

Patience is the miracle trait with lousy PR. It’s extremely unsexy, but I’m dead serious. If there’s one thing you should cultivate, it’s ‘the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, problems, or suffering without becoming annoyed…

You can’t see what you don’t see. It’s bloody obvious, but being fundamentally aware of it changes everything. There’s no way I can step outside my worldview and borrow yours for a while. There’s no way…

‘I think I should learn how to delegate more’, she tells me. It’s our fourth conversation. This powerful businesswoman is doing really well, having a lot of crazy insights, and the anxiety around her fresh relationship…

Je komt binnen met een hoofd vol, een leven vol. De zorgen trekken je gezicht samen, je ogen staan serieus. Je lijf is verkrampt, met hoge schouders, schichtig en gespannen. En je bent moe, zo moe….